What did you do when you woke up this morning? Is it the same thing that you did the day before, and the day before that? Do you remember if you put any thought into the activities you did this morning? Probably not or you might still be doing them. The reason is that our brains would literally shut down if we had to think about the process for every single[...]
Here is an exercise for you. Don’t think about apples. Don’t think about juicy red apples. Don’t think about the beautiful trees that produce juicy red apples. What are you thinking about right now? Probably apples. How often do you hear yourself saying, “I don’t want to do this or that” and then you do it anyways. According to Steve Andres and C[...]
In yoga, they say that standing on your head gives you a different perspective. In Neuro-linguistic Programming (NLP), they say, “If what you are doing isn’t working, do something else. Do anything else.” If you are stuck in a rut and searching for change, it requires that you do something different. You can’t expect anything to change doing the s[...]
As a happiness coach, people always ask me, “Are you ever not happy.” I usually respond with “Heck yeah, I go through the array of emotions just like everybody else, just ask my kids.” The difference is that I have trained my brain to be aware of these emotions so that I don’t stay in them for too long. It is something I work on daily for several[...]
Here is some bee happi coaching rhetoric for you. Imagine that there is something that you want to change, but you haven't done anything about it. Now maybe in your heart, you are longing for this change. Yet something always gets in the way like: fear, lack of confidence, or any other limiting belief. Next, look deep into the future and think about what li[...]
In the world of all things happy, there are so many tricks you can learn to just be happy. As your happiness guide, I am here to experiment with these exercises and tools to see if they really work. In my post blogs, I will share my findings. Today, I want to share this awesome Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) exercise called “The Swish Pattern.” T[...]